Hi Lesley
Sorry for the late reply we've been away to the Isle of Wight for a break. We had a good few days but then Mike started to feel very unwell with a sore throat. It got worse so I took him to the drs. Turns out he's got tonsilitus and is now on anti-biotics again!! He's really taking a kicking this time.
Thanks for asking the Macmillan team about counselling for me, that is so king of you. Mike is registered with our local hospice and they are going to help me, so I'm happier now.

Jan